Sunday, July 13, 2008

Let go.....it's time....

It’s okay if you didn’t get the love of the person you loved most
It's okay if you didn’t get the attention of the person you seek most
It's okay if you were not included in the life of that someone you always wanted most
It's okay they forgot you
It's okay they turned back
It’s okay that things didn’t work out..
Perhaps it was not meant to be
It would have been your plan
But not the plan of your creator…
What ever happened to you
What ever pain you went through
You survived…
If you are reading this you are alive..
This means you had survived..
You are alive..
Stop.. breath.. in.. . and out..
Again… in… and out…
You are alive…
Hearts break – Lives lost
Shattered dreams.. broken promises…
Life must go on

Things happen – and we don’t know why
We may want to think and analyze and wonder
But we will never know why…
We really don’t know why things happen
The only person who knows is the one above
The one with the bird’s-eye view
He sees far.. he sees the end and he knows us all

Let’s not hold on to anger
Misery and agony
It’s not going to help us at all
It will kill us.. bit by bit..
Forgive yourself..
And forgive others…
Yes, those people who gave you pain
Let them walk away
You can’t move on, holding on
Just let go
Let if off your mind and heart
You learnt your lesson
This is just one part of your life..
You still have the rest of your life…

It’s okay if you didn’t get the love of the person you loved most
But learn to love yourself first…
It's okay if you didn’t get the attention of the person you seek most
But learn to pay attention to yourself first
It's okay if you were not included in the life of that someone you wanted most
But learn to include yourself in your own life
It's okay they forgot you
But don’t forget yourself
It's okay they turned back
But don’t turn back on yourself

Remember.. they may have gone.. but you are here..

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Sometimes I wonder why deep down I have anger towards my husband for taking away my dreams. My dreams of a beautiful house, my dreams of a stability that only comes from the union of two,my dreams of a surprise 40th birthday party with hundreds of our friends gathering to celebrate,my dreams of any struggle met with the strength of two and so many more things. Of course these things only work if it is a happy, comfortable and respectful union. Without that, it is just four empty walls housing unhappiness, regret and hate. Sometimes I wonder how could someone hate the one they were supposed to love so much, to the death, to the end? How could they hate someone so much to leave them for another who is nothing in the scheme of things? How do you regain your person? how do you recreate yourself as someone new and someone who conquers? When all you feel like doing is laying down and letting the train drive over you. Too many questions I am asking..The final one being..how do you ever love yourself ENOUGH after someone you used to love... threw you out in the trash?

Heather