Sunday, July 13, 2008

Is it time to move on?


Let’s not waste our time
Knocking on closed doors
Let’s not waste our time
On waiting for people who never show up
It takes two to tango
And one alone can’t do it

There is always a reason
For the silence
But, one could try to share
If they have trust in each other
Belief and have faith
And respect for each other
And for the relationship you are in…

What are we suppose to do?
Wait forever and ever..
Not knowing what is going on..
You see them talking to others
You see them living their life
But yet they have no time for you
No time to talk? No time to explain?
Lack of interest?
Do you want out? Then say so..
Have guts.. be honest…
Have courtesy to say good-bye

Lets cut our loses and move on..
There is no point in trying to enter
When the door is closed…
In this life we don’t own anyone
We can’t hold on to people
Who wants to walk away
Let them walk away…
To their destiny
To them free
and also let you free
Lets not stand anymore
In front of a close door
Looks like they may have left from the back door
Without even saying good bye…
And for what ever reason they don't want you anymore
And perhaps they forgot to tell you
Busy? who knows..
Other committments.. may be...
Thousand questions..
But no answers...
Lets have courage
To move on...
The door was closed
but life didnt stop
Sometimes, we stop..
but Life does not..
it flows.. it moves..
always forward....


Have you been standing in front of a closed door?
Is it time to move on?

Let go.....it's time....

It’s okay if you didn’t get the love of the person you loved most
It's okay if you didn’t get the attention of the person you seek most
It's okay if you were not included in the life of that someone you always wanted most
It's okay they forgot you
It's okay they turned back
It’s okay that things didn’t work out..
Perhaps it was not meant to be
It would have been your plan
But not the plan of your creator…
What ever happened to you
What ever pain you went through
You survived…
If you are reading this you are alive..
This means you had survived..
You are alive..
Stop.. breath.. in.. . and out..
Again… in… and out…
You are alive…
Hearts break – Lives lost
Shattered dreams.. broken promises…
Life must go on

Things happen – and we don’t know why
We may want to think and analyze and wonder
But we will never know why…
We really don’t know why things happen
The only person who knows is the one above
The one with the bird’s-eye view
He sees far.. he sees the end and he knows us all

Let’s not hold on to anger
Misery and agony
It’s not going to help us at all
It will kill us.. bit by bit..
Forgive yourself..
And forgive others…
Yes, those people who gave you pain
Let them walk away
You can’t move on, holding on
Just let go
Let if off your mind and heart
You learnt your lesson
This is just one part of your life..
You still have the rest of your life…

It’s okay if you didn’t get the love of the person you loved most
But learn to love yourself first…
It's okay if you didn’t get the attention of the person you seek most
But learn to pay attention to yourself first
It's okay if you were not included in the life of that someone you wanted most
But learn to include yourself in your own life
It's okay they forgot you
But don’t forget yourself
It's okay they turned back
But don’t turn back on yourself

Remember.. they may have gone.. but you are here..

Imagine...


Imagine…
You are in the eve of your life….
Sitting on a rocking chair…
Looking back at your life..
Yes, your life…
Is there a smile on your face?
A sense of satisfaction in your heart?
Would you feel happy?
Would you feel content?
Would you feel joy?
Would you feel proud of your accomplishments?
Did you use all your god given potential?
Did you travel?
Did you sing?
Did you dance?
What memories do you have?
Did you do your best to live your best life?
Did you at least try?

Or is it all full of regret?
Disappointment?
Agony and misery?
Tears of sadness?
A frown on your face?
Anger flowing through your body?
Unfulfilled dreams
Lost hopes
Shattered hearts….
broken promises...

You are still not late..
You have today.. yes! today
To create some happy memories for tomorrow
Yesterday – is gone.. we can’t do much
But today…
Today you can..
You can still create some smiles, some laugher, some joy
For you to cherish for tomorrow..


If you want to you can.. but it’s all up to you?

You are Valued....


Do you realize?
You don’t owe your life to any man or woman?
But yourself....
Do you realize?
Living for yourself is your responsibility
That is what you are here for…

Are you living well my friend?
Are you living with joy?
With peace in your heart and mind?
Have you found your path my friend?
The path that is meant for you?

Are you doing what you are suppose to?
Do you realize you are needed here
And you have a place on this earth..
That is why my friend
Your creator brought you here….

White, black, yellow or brown
You are valued my friend
And you are needed
Fat, thin, tall, short, curvy or flat
You are valued my friend
It’s not in the colour of your eyes or hair or your skin
It's what is in your heart
It’s what inside of you my friend
You are valued....

Married, divorced, separated
Child less or with children
Blue-collar or white-collar
You are valued my friend..
You are here for a reason..
You have a place



You are valued and wanted and you have a place on this earth

and you are also here for a reason

take time to find out your reason....